A study in hands
A week ago, we were down at my sister's house. My mom, my sister, Fiona and I were all knitting away and I was struck at the diversity in knitting styles and how time has weathered the mainstay of our craft. Our hands.

Papa doesn't knit, but he does use his hands a lot. At 84 (and counting) he regularly works the land with these two hands, the same hands taught me to tie my shoes and plant seeds in our garden, They turned the pages while he read to me and wielded the pencil while explaining the complexities of physics to my stubborn teen-aged brain.

Mom taught me to knit when I was young, neither of us really remembers when the event occurred. These hands also taught me to sew, to crochet, to can. They corrected my English papers and guided me with piano practices. She has been knitting for what seems like for ever. Some day, if I am fortunate enough, I hope to have her guest blog here and tell her knitting story.

I think of my sister's hands as nursing hands. From the time that she was little, that is what she aspired to be. I think of her hands deftly turning fabric through the teeth of her sewing machine, a better seamstress than I ever wanted to be. I remember her playing the flute when she was younger as well. I thought that the ability was cool. I on the other hand, couldn't even get a squwack out of that particular instrument.

My hands. They are starting to show the wear and tear of time. I imagine that at some point they will be come gnarled with arthritis and unable to do some of the things that I can do now.

My daughters hands. They are at the other end of the spectrum. They have lost the baby look and are beginning to take on the maturity that will come with time. They fly over the keyboard, chord the notes of the cello, and are beginning their knitting journey. They carry with them the future of many different things, and who knows what stories they will ultimately tell.
Four pairs of knitting hands. All different and on separate journeys through life. What strikes me is how differently we all hold the yarn and how the resulting fabric is unique to each person. How much like life knitting is.
Comments
Beautifully written. Proof that we can touch others with or without our hands.
Posted by: AlisonH | December 2, 2007 02:26 PM
What a great post.
Posted by: Sue | December 2, 2007 06:46 PM
Nice to see the hands from grandparents, to aunt to mom to Fee. Also glad to see that she has taken more of an interest in knitting. Hopefully HK will follow soon. Funny how Shannon and Kass showed more of an initial interest than our older ones. Just shows how each set are so much alike, lol!
Posted by: Midgeling
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December 2, 2007 09:30 PM
Oh, but this is such a lovely post! Thank you. I wonder how many times each one of us take for granted the marvel and magic that are in our hands. How many times do we consider how we can use those hands in loving, caring ways..how they can help to heal another person's wounds..both physical and emotional wounds, and how if we don't take care those same hands can cause another hurt and pain?
You have helped me to think about the ways that I can and do use my hands. Thanks again!
Posted by: ellen kelley | December 3, 2007 09:00 AM
Great post!
Posted by: Sharon | December 4, 2007 07:16 AM
What a beautiful, reflective post. Thank you.
Posted by: Joanne | December 5, 2007 03:36 PM